ALMOST 5 - FILLED WITH DUAS & MIRACLES

There was a time when my days revolved around lullabies, milk bottles & tiny socks that somehow always went missing. Back then, everything about her felt so small. Her fingers wrapped around mine, her soft baby scent, the way she needed me for everything (even until today). I remember thinking those days were long (because i was mostly just alone with her), sometimes exhausting but i never realized just how fleeting they were.

This year, my daughter will be five. Five. Asking questions about school, about what she sees each day, and sharing her thoughts & feelings. Her voice is clearer, her thoughts are bigger & her independence, her will power, it surprises me every single day.

But if i'm being honest, there was a time when we were very worried about that very voice. 

I still remember when she was two. While other children her age were starting to form words & simple sentences, she mostly mumbled. And her only clear words were 'mommy' & 'daddy'. We at first, told ourselves not to compare, that every child develops at their own pace. But deep down, the concern was always there.

So we took that step. We brought her to therapy, both government & private. There were sessions, small exercises, repeated words & quiet prayers in between. It wasn’t always easy. There were moments of doubt, moments when we questioned whether we were doing enough, or doing things right. And honestly, i still carry that feeling even now, despite how much she has progressed, because a part of me is still afraid that what we’ve done might still not be enough.

But we kept going. Alhamdulillah. Slowly, things began to change for the better. A new word here. A clearer sound there. Then one day, without even realizing it, she started talking more. Expressing more. Connecting her thoughts into sentences. And now? Now she is chatty. Her words aren’t perfect yet because there are still mispronunciations. But the progress is there, and it means everything.

Alhamdulillah, everything is coming together so beautifully. She’s no longer my baby. Not even my toddler anymore. She’s becoming her own little person. And now, she's already in kindergarten preparing herself for Standard 1 in the next two years. 

It feels surreal. Two more years & she’ll be stepping into a new phase of life. School routines, new friends, responsibilities & a world that is slowly expanding beyond me. I find myself thinking a lot about how to prepare her. Not just academically but emotionally too. How do i teach her confidence, kindness, resilience? I want her to be unbreakable, strong & firm just like me, but even better. I pray that she will adapt & get along very well. InsyaAllah. 

Sometimes, i wish i could pause time. Just for a while. To hold on to this version of her. The curious five-year-old who still reaches for my hand, who still calls for me day & night, who still needs me in ways i understand.

But i know that growing is part of her journey. And learning to let go, just a little more each day, is part of mine. So now, instead of wishing time would slow down, i try to soak it all in every single day. The laughter, the questions, the small milestones that don’t feel small at all. I remind myself that while she may not be a baby anymore, she will always be my child, always and forever. 

May Allah ease Nur Aqisya Emara's journey always until the end of the time. May the world always be kind to her. May she always be confidence, kind & resilience. May she be guided in every step she takes, protected from harm seen & unseen, and always surrounded by good companions who uplift her heart & faith. May Aqisya's mind be filled with wisdom, her heart with kindness & her spirit with courage when life feels heavy. May she grow into someone who brings light wherever she goes & may she always find her way back to peace and Allah whenever she is lost or overwhelmed. And may my husband & i, as her parents, be granted strength, patience & wisdom to guide her gently through every season of her life. InsyaAllah. Amin YRA. 

Mommy loves you Aqisya. To the end of every road you walk, through every sunrise you see & in every little step you take, my love will always be with you. Always & forever ❤︎

LIFE LATELY

I realized my last post was on 3rd March last year. Somehow, that feels like a good reason to write again today for 2026. Time has a funny way of moving. Some days feel long and heavy, yet somehow a whole year has quietly passed. Looking back, i don’t remember every single details, but i know i’m not the same person i was when i last wrote here.

Life lately has been a mix of routine and quiet lessons. Some days are very productive, some are just about getting through & both feel equally valid. I’m learning to be kinder to myself, to accept that progress doesn’t always look instantly impressive from the outside. Sometimes, simply living through ordinary days is already enough.

Maybe this post isn’t meant to say anything big. Maybe it’s just a small marker in time, a reminder that i was here, living, trying & growing in my own way. 

And if I ever come back, maybe sooner, maybe later, or even a year from now. And read this again, i hope i’ll smile & realize that even small progress matters, leading us toward a better future. 

Step by step, good progress will come. Keep going, InsyaAllah!

2025 BINGO CARD

 

This year, i decided to ditch the usual New Year’s resolutions because let's be honest, it's been years and i never stick to any of them. Every year i wrote a long list of goals, and yeah, just like that - no achievement, no nothing. Huhu.

So for 2025, i’m trying something different; a Bingo card! Instead of one big overwhelming list, i filled it with a mix of activities, personal goals, and little challenges i actually want and hope to do. I think the best part of this Bingo card is i get to check off boxes as i go, which makes it feel more like a game than a new year resolutions.

Here’s to making 2025 a year of small wins, new experiences, and happy memories - one Bingo square at a time! Let’s make this bingo a success from start to finish. May every box be checked!

SO LONG, 2024!

My 2024 highlights:

Me & my best friend went to see Taylor Swift at Singapore

I went to my first International (ASEAN) meeting at Jakarta, Indonesia

I received my first Anugerah Perkhidmatan Cemerlang (APC)

Like any previous years, i approached this year with cautious optimism, ready to take whatever came my way but not particularly hopeful for anything extraordinary. Yet as i look back now, i realized how 2024 turned out to be one of the most fulfilling and bright years for me.

One thought shines brighter than all others; i met THE Taylor Swift. Sure, the year had its ups and downs, but this one moment was a dream come true that eclipsed everything else. In a year filled with twists and turns, this experience became my anchor of joy. I mean, whatever happened in 2024, at least i did met Taylor Swift this year haha. Fact! 

We celebrate not only the achievements but also the lessons learned that will guide us from time to time. Now, as we prepare to welcome 2025, it's time to set our sights on new horizons. We often feel as though we remain unchanged, stuck in the same routines, surrounded by the same people, and still at the same place. Yet the truth is, we are constantly growing, even if that growth isn't immediately visible. With each passing day, we accumulate new experiences, face different challenges, and learn lessons that shape who we are. 

Alhamdulillah for everything that happened this year. Al-Fatihah and heartfelt prayers to all my loved ones who also have passed away this year.  Their absence is deeply felt, but their memories remain. 2024 taught me that even when we least expect it, life can surprise us with beauty, meaning, and wonder. For that, I’ll always be grateful. 

MY FIRST INTERNATIONAL MEETING @ JAKARTA, INDONESIA

The 22nd Meeting of the Working Group on Data Sharing, Analysis, Dissemination, 

and Communication of ASEAN Statistics (WGDSA)

 

24-25 July 2024 at ASEAN Secretariat, Jakarta, Indonesia

Honored to represent Malaysia at my first (and alone) International Meeting. Alhamdulillah and thank you to my Superior (Puan Romiati), my Division Director (Puan Ezatul Nisha), and to our Chief Statistician (Dato’ Sri Dr. Mohd Uzir) – also not to forget, my family for this opportunity. Looking forward to more International engagements in the future. InsyaAllah.

ANUGERAH PERKHIDMATAN CEMERLANG (APC) 2023

 

Alhamdulillah. After 5 years of sweat and tears, i finally received the Anugerah Perkhidmatan Cemerlang (APC) 2023. To those who not know, APC is an award given in Malaysia to recognize and honor government servants for their excellent service. You did not get this kind of award often. Generally, one will receive like once every 3-10 years depending on their performance at work. And yeah, 2023 was my year to finally be awarded with this. 

My profound gratitude goes to my family and my BKS, DOSM team. It will be a lie if i said that i never expect to receive this APC. APC is like one of my goals while being a government servant. This achievement wouldn’t have been possible without the tremendous support from my family and excellent efforts from everyone in my team. To many more APCs and other accomplishments of us in the future. 

Next goal: Hadiah Latihan Persekutuan (HLP). InsyaAllah. 

DUN SARAWAK BUILDING FROM EVERY ANGLE POSSIBLE (INCLUDING ME)

It's always an exciting time to see your friends especially the closed ones getting married. And for this time around, thanks to Muliani for inviting us to Kuching, Sarawak for her wedding. This was my first time going to Sarawak and i loved every bit of it. I don't often go out with colleagues from work, but i'm really glad we did this time.

Barakallah Muliani & Hubby! May your wedding day be the start of a lifetime filled with love, joy, and countless blessings. Wishing you both a beautiful journey ahead together till Jannah. Congratulations on your special day!