We need to understand that what is said and done years ago may not apply today. Don't use someone's past against them especially when you have not even meet or talk to that person for a long time. We are not the same individual as we were a year ago, a month ago or even a week ago. Doesn't matter if you were close to that person for years or decades, but once you are no longer connected, trust me, for at least some parts, you just have to forget what you think you know. Because some or most of it are not the same anymore. We may not realize or see the progress, but that's how life goes.
People change, they grow.
